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Deacon Dan Vaughn • March 3, 2026

Walking the Way of the Cross: Through the eyes of our Blessed Mother

Walking the Way of the Cross: Through the eyes of our Blessed Mother

 

Last Friday, Our Lady of the Ozarks’ PCCW led the Stations of the Cross in Forsyth. They chose a Marian devotional Way of the Cross, praying the Stations with Mary the Mother of Jesus. I am familiar with this meditative version as I am sure most of our area Catholics from Our Lady of the Lake and Our Lady of the Cove. But what many of you may not know is that “Mary’s Way of the Cross” is rooted in the mystical vision of Blessed Anne Catherine Emmerich.

 

Blessed Anne Catherine Emmerich (1774–1824), a German Augustinian nun and mystic, is remembered for her vivid visions of the life of Christ and the Blessed Virgin Mary. Her accounts, recorded by the poet Clemens Brentano, offer a contemplative lens through which to experience the Passion. In one particularly moving depiction, she describes the Blessed Mother revisiting the places of her Son’s suffering after His Resurrection, walking the path of Calvary in prayer and silence, long before the devotion of the Stations of the Cross was formally established.

 

Blessed Anne’s vision of the Stations includes three falls, moments not recorded in Scripture but deeply rooted in Christian meditation. Her visions give these falls spiritual meaning:

 


  • The First Fall reveals the shock of suffering. Jesus collapses under the sudden weight of the Cross. Mary’s heart trembles, yet she remains steadfast, offering Him her silent strength.

 


  • The Second Fall reflects the discouragement of repeated pain. Jesus is bruised, exhausted, and surrounded by cruelty. Mary sees Him struggle and unites her own anguish to His mission of love.

 


  • The Third Fall shows the total exhaustion of the Savior. Jesus falls with nothing left to give but love itself. Mary’s soul is crushed with Him, yet she consents again to the Father’s will.

 

In each fall, Mary is the compassionate Mother who walks the road with her Son. She does not intervene to stop the suffering; she accompanies Him through it. Her presence teaches the Church how to love Christ in His weakness and how to remain faithful in our own.

 

When the faithful pray the Stations with Mary, the devotion becomes more intimate and transformative. Mary helps us:

 


  • See Jesus with a mother’s eyes, full of tenderness and sorrow.

 


  • Feel the weight of the Cross, not as a burden imposed but as love offered.

 


  • Recognize our own falls and rise again with Christ.

 


  • Learn compassion, especially for those who suffer silently.

 


  • Grow in trust, surrendering our fears as Mary surrendered hers.

 

For the faithful, Blessed Anne’s vision offers a powerful invitation: to walk the Way of the Cross not only as an act of penance, but also as an act of love and gratitude. Lent is not merely about recalling the pain of Christ’s Passion; it is about entering into the mystery of a love so great that it transforms suffering into salvation. By meditating on each station through Mary’s eyes, we are reminded that the Cross is not the end - it is the doorway to eternal life.

 

As Lent continues to unfold, we are reminded to walk the Way of the Cross not as spectators, but as disciples who allow Christ and His Mother to draw us deeper into the mystery of His redeeming love


Author Bio:
Deacon Dan Vaughn